On the Tab :: Nov. 9 - 16

Celebrate with friends, or make new ones at benefits that help local causes. Tip performers, waiters and bar staff generously, because money is like butter. It only tastes good when you spread it around.

Thursday, Nov. 9

Beer Bust @ Lone Star Saloon
Weekly beer bust and benefit for local charities. 9pm-11pm. 1354 Harrison St. www.lonestarsf.com

Comedy Night @ Ashkenaz, Berkeley
Mark Pitta, Emily Epstein White, Sid Singh, and host Lisa Geduldig will make you laugh, at the new monthly comedy night. $10-$20. 8pm. 1317 San Pablo Ave., Berkeley. www.Koshercomedy.com

Cyberotica! @ Oasis
Revival of the hilarious 1999 Y2K drag musical by Peter Fogel and Kelly Kittell, about online hookups, chat rooms and AOL-era fun. $25-$35. Thu 8pm. Fri & Sat 7pm. Thru Nov. 18. 298 11th St. www.sfoasis.com

Fuego @ The Watergarden, San Jose
Weekly DJed sex party with Latin videos and musics, free salsa bar, half-price lockers, at the famed South Bay bath house. 4pm-12am. 1010 The Alameda, San Jose. www.thewatergarden.com

Gayface @ El Rio
Queer weekly night out at the popular Mission bar. 9pm-2am. 3158 Mission St. www.elriosf.com

Gym Class @ Hi Tops
Enjoy whiskey shots from jock-strapped hotties and sexy sports videos at the popular sports bar. 10pm-2am. 2247 Market St. 551-2500. www.HiTopsSF.com

Junk @ Powerhouse
MrPam and Dulce de Leche cohost the weekly underwear strip night and contest, with sexy prizes. $5. 10pm-2am. 1347 Folsom St. www.powerhousebar.com

Lady Rizo @ Feinstein's at the Nikko
The stellar and funny Grammy-winning singer returns to the intimate upscale nightclub. $18-$45. 7pm. Hotel Nikko, 222 Mason St. http://www.feinsteinsatthenikko.com/

The Monster Show @ The Edge
The weekly drag show with host Sue Casa, DJ MC2, themed nights and hilarious fun. $5. 9pm-2am. 4149 18th St. at Collingwood. www.edgesf.com

Picante @ The Cafe
Lulu and DJ Marco's Latin night with sexy gogo guys. 9pm-2am. 2369 Market St. www.cafesf.com

Queer Karaoke @ Club OMG
KJ Dana hosts the weekly singing night; unleash your inner American Idol; first Thursdays are Costume Karaoke; 3rd is Kinky Karaoke 8pm. 43 6th St. www.clubomgsf.com

Rickie Lee Jones @ UC Theatre, Berkeley
The acclaimed folk-pop singer-composer performs. $52-$62. 8pm. 2036 University Ave., Berkeley. http://www.theuctheatre.org/

Rock Fag @ Hole in the Wall
Enjoy hard rock and punk music from DJ Don Baird at the wonderfully divey SoMa bar. Also Fridays. 7pm-2am. 1369 Folsom St. 431-4695. www.hitws.com

Sundance Saloon @ Space 550
The Country-Western line-dancing two-stepping dance night. $5. lessons at 5:30pm, dancing til 10:30pm. Also Sundays. 550 Barneveld Ave. www.sundancesaloon.org

Thursday Night Live @ SF Eagle
Rock music at the famed leather bar. $5. 9pm-2am. 398 12th St. at Harrison. www.sf-eagle.com

Tubesteak Connection @ Aunt Charlie's Lounge
Disco guru DJ Bus Station John spins grooves at the intimate retro music night. $5. 10pm-2am. 133 Turk St. at Taylor. www.auntcharlieslounge.com

Will & Grace Viewing @ Oasis
Watch the return of the Emmy-winning gay sitcom. 8pm. 298 11th St. www.sfoasis.com

Friday, Nov. 10

Ain't Mama's Drag @ Balancoire
Weekly drag queen and drag king show hosted by Cruzin d'Loo. 8pm-10pm. No cover. 2565 Mission St. www.balancoiresf.com

Ariela Morgenstern @ Feinstein's at the Nikko
The Broadway star (Next to Normal, Light in the Piazza, Man of La Mancha) and Bay Area native performs a new autobiographical cabaret concert about homecomings, and motherhood. $17.50-$40. 8pm. Hotel Nikko, 222 Mason St. http://www.caissielevy.com/ https://www.feinsteinsatthenikko.com/

Beach Blanket Babylon @ Club Fugazi
The musical comedy revue celebrates its 43th year with an ever-changing lineup of political and pop culture icons, all in gigantic wigs, now with new 'Summer of Love' numbers. $25-$160. Beer/wine served; cash only; 21+, except where noted. Wed-Fri 8pm. Sat 6pm & 9pm. Sun 2pm & 5pm. 678 Beach Blanket Babylon Blvd. (Green St.). 421-4222. www.beachblanketbabylon.com

Bear Happy Hour @ Midnight Sun
Hairy men and their pals enjoy 2-for-1 drinks and no cover. 4067 18th St. 861-4186. www.midnightsunsf.com

Boy Division @ Cat Club
The New Wave LGBT dance night, with DJs Xander, Starr, gogo dancers, retro gaming and more fun. $5-$10. 9:30pm-3am. 1190 Folsom St. http://www.sfcatclub.com/

Cubcake @ Lone Star Saloon
Big boys and men, bears and cubs, and treats, plus DJ Spaz. $5. 9pm-2am. 1354 Harrison St. www.lonestarsf.com

DTF Fridays @ Port Bar, Oakland
Various DJs play house music, and a few hotties gogo dance at the new gay bar's weekly event. 9pm-2am. 2023 Broadway. (510) 823-2099. www.portbaroakland.com

Friday Nights at the Ho @ White Horse Bar, Oakland
Dance it up at the historic (and still hip) East Bay bar. 9pm-2am. 6551 Telegraph Ave. http://whitehorsebar.com

Friday Night Live @ El Rio
Enjoy the weekly queer and LGBT-friendly live acoustic concerts. $5pm. 3158 Mission St. www.elriosf.com

Gogo Fridays @ Toad Hall
Hot dancers grind it at the Castro bar with a dance floor and patio. 4146 18th St. www.toadhallbar.com

Guerrilla Gay Bar @ The Blacksmith, Redwood City
LGBT-welcoming gathering at the South Bay bar. 6pm-9pm. 2048 Broadway, Redwood City. http://www.blacksmith.bar/

Happy Friday @ Midnight Sun
The popular video bar ends each work week with hot gogo guys (starting at 9pm) and drink specials; also Saturday nights. 4067 18th St. 861-4186. www.midnightsunsf.com

Hard Fridays @ Qbar
DH Haute Toddy's weekly electro-pop night with hotty gogos. $3. 9pm-2am (happy hour 4pm-9pm). 456 Castro St. www.QbarSF.com

Hella Gay Comedy @ Club OMG
Queer joke night, with host Nasty Ass Bitch. $15. 7pm. 43 6th St. www.clubomgsf.com

iCandy @ The Cafe
Gus Presents' weekly dance night, with DJ Deft, cute gogos and $2 beer (before 10pm). 2369 Market St. www.cafesf.com

Latin Explosion, Club Papi @ Club 21, Oakland
Hip Hop and Latin grooves event, with 3 dance floors, gogos, drag acts, and special retro DJed grooves. $10-$20. 9pm-4am. 2111 Franklin St., Oakland. www.club21oakland.com

Lick It @ Powerhouse
Lance Holman's monthly extra-sexy cruise night, with DJ Blackstone. $5. 10pm-2am. 1347 Folsom St. www.powerhousebar.com

Lipstick Lesbians/Uhaul @ Oasis
Happy hour for women (7pm-10pm), followed by Uhaul, the popular women's dance night. $20. 10pm-2am. 298 11th St. www.sfoasis.com

Manimal @ Beaux
Gogo-tastic dance night starts off your weekend. $5. 9pm-2am. 2344 Market St. www.beauxsf.com

Midnight Show @ Divas
Weekly drag shows at the last transgender-friendly bar in the Polk; with hosts Victoria Secret, Alexis Miranda and several performers. Also Saturdays. $10. 11pm. 1081 Polk St. www.divassf.com

Monster Drawing Rally @ Minnesota Street Project
Southern Exposure's annual festive and fun fundraiser, where dozens of artists make art-on-demand and for sale. $20-$25. 6pm-10pm. 1275 Minnesota St. www.soex.org

Red Hots Burlesque @ The Stud
The saucy women's burlesque show hosted by Dottie Lux will titillate and tantalize. $10-$20. 8pm-9:30pm. 399 9th St. Also Sunday brunch shows at PianoFight Theatre.144 Taylor St. www.redhotsburlesque.com www.studsf.com

Skate Night @ Church on 8 Wheels
Groove on wheels at the former Sacred Heart Church-turned disco roller skate party space, hosted by John D. Miles, the "Godfather of Skate." 7pm-11pm. Sat afternoon sessions 1pm-2:30pm and 3pm-5:30pm. $10. Kids 12 and under $5. Skate rentals $5. 554 Fillmore St. at Fell. www.churchof8wheels.com

Vibe Fridays @ Club BnB, Oakland
House music and cocktails, with DJs Shareef Raheim-Jihad and Ellis Lindsey. 9pm-2am. 2120 Broadway. (510) 759-7340. www.club-bnb.com

Saturday, Nov. 11

Bootie SF @ DNA Lounge
Resident DJs and guests spin at the mash-up DJ dance party, with four rooms of different sounds and eight DJs; The Monster Drag Show hosted by Sue Casa. $10-$15 and up. 9:30pm-3am. 375 11th St. www.bootiesf.com www.dnalounge.com

Bounce @ Lookout
Dance music with a view at the Castro bar. 9pm-2am. 3600 16th St. www.lookoutsf.com

Fauxgirls @ Encore Karaoke Lounge
Farewell show for the year with the long-running drag act ensemble. 8pm. 1550 California St. http://www.fauxgirls.com/

Honey SoundSystem @ Public Works
Ten-Year Anniversary Rave with the cool DJ collective (Danny Daze, Kim Ann Foxman, Justin Cudmore, Octo Octa, Jason Kendig, Joshu Cheon, Bezier, Jackie House and surprise guests). $15-$40. 6pm-4am. 161 Erie St. http://www.publicsf.com/

Lips and Lashes Brunch @ Lookout
Weekly show with soul, funk and Motown grooves hosted by Carnie Asada, with DJs Becky Knox and Pumpkin Spice. The yummy brunch menu starts at 12pm, with the show at 1:30pm. 3600 16th St. www.lookoutsf.com

Lumbertwink @ Lone Star Saloon
Break out your plaid flannel at the bear bar, with DJs Jimmy Swear and Spaz. $5. 9pm-2am. 1354 Harrison St. www.lonestarsf.com

Mascara @ Eureka Valley Rec Center
MGM Grande hosts the LGBT sober space's fun monthly drag show and benefit. $15-$20. 7:30pm. 100 Collingwood www.castrocountryclub.org

Mother @ Oasis
Heklina's popular drag show, with special guests and great music themes (No bachelorette parties admitted! Yay!) Nov. 11 is another fab Bjork tribute night. $10. 10pm-3am (11:30pm show). 298 11th St. www.sfoasis.com

Nitty Gritty @ Beaux
Josh Carmichael with DJ Salazer host the tattoo appreciation night. $10. 9pm-2am. 2344 Market St. www.beauxsf.com

The Playground @ Club BNB, Oakland
Revamped night at the popular hip hop and Latin dance club. $5-$15. 9pm to 4am. 2120 Broadway. (510) 759-7340. www.club-bnb.com

Post 448 Beverage Benefit @ The Cinch Saloon
Beer and soft drink bust for the LGBT-inclusive veterans group, with a new leather jacket raffle from Mr. S. $10 includes food. $2-$5 Jell-O shots, too! 4pm-7pm. 1723 Polk St. http://www.post448.org/ http://cinchsf.com/

Pound Puppy, Gaymer Night @ SF Eagle
Cruisey cubby dude fun night merges with the video game fan event. $10. 9pm-2am. 398 12th St. at Harrison. www.sf-eagle.com

Saturgay @ Qbar
Stanley Frank spins house dance remixes at the intimate Castro dance bar. $3. 9pm-2am (weekly beer bust 2pm-9pm). 456 Castro St. www.QbarSF.com

Session/House Party @ Powerhouse
Jason Godfrey DJs the early grooves (7pm-10pm) with DJ Mohammad serving up house grooves 10pm-2am. $5. 9pm-2am. 1347 Folsom St. www.powerhousebar.com

Shake It Up @ Port Bar, Oakland
DJ Lady Char spins dance grooves; gogo studs, and drink specials, too. 9pm-2am. 2023 Broadway. (510) 823-2099. www.portbaroakland.com

Soul Party @ Elbo Room
DJs Lucky, Paul, and Phengren Osward spin 60s soul 45s. $5-$10 ($5 off in semi-formal attire). 10pm-2am. 647 Valencia St. 552-7788. www.elbo.com

Sugar @ The Cafe
Dance, drink, cruise at the Castro club, with DJs Gay Marvine, Taco Tuesday and Matthew XO. 9pm-2am. 2369 Market St. www.cafesf.com

Sunday, Nov. 12

Beer Bust @ Lone Star Saloon
Beer, bears, beats at the weekly fundraiser for various local charities. $15. 4pm-8pm. 1354 Harrison St. www.lonestarsf.com

Beer Bust @ SF Eagle
The popular weekly event packs in the fans, with proceeds going to local charities. $10. Beer bust 3pm-5pm. 398 12th St. at Harrison. www.sf-eagle.com

Beverage Benefit @ The Edge
Fundraiser and fun, with proceeds going to local nonprofits. $10. 4pm-7pm. 4149 18th St. www.edgesf.com

Big Top @ Beaux
Enjoy an extra weekend night at the fun Castro nightclub, plus hot local DJs and sexy gogo guys and gals. $8. 9pm-2am. 2344 Market St. www.Beauxsf.com

Blessed @ Port Bar, Oakland
Carnie Asada's fun drag night with Carnie's Angels Mahlae Balenciaga and Au Jus, plus DJ Ion. 2023 Broadway. www.portbaroakland.com

Dir-T @ SF Eagle
Post-bee bust T-dance for dirty cubs and bears, with DJ Byron Bonsall. $10. 7pm-1am. 398 12th St. at Harrison. www.sf-eagle.com

Domingo De Escandal @ Club OMG
Weekly Latin night with drag shows hosted by Vicky Jimenez and DJ Carlitos. (Comedy Open Mic 5:30pm). 7pm-2am. 43 6th St. www.clubomgsf.com

Femme Brunch @ Balancoire
Weekly live music shows with various acts, along with brunch buffet, bottomless Mimosas, champagne and more, at the stylish nightclub and restaurant, with live entertainment and DJ Shawn P. $15-$20. 11am-3pm. After that, Femme T-Dance drag shows at 7pm, 10pm and 11pm. 2565 Mission St. at 21st. 920-0577. www.balancoiresf.com

GlamaZone @ The Cafe
Pollo del Mar's weekly drag show takes on different themes with a comic edge. 8:30-11:30pm. 2369 Market St. www.cafesf.com

Jock @ The Lookout
Enjoy the weekly jock-ular fun, with DJed dance music at sports team fundraisers. 12pm-1am. NY DJ Sharon White from 3pm-6pm. 3600 16th St. www.lookoutsf.com

Mugshot Realness @ Oasis
Ember Alert & Mike Castro's daytime disco party, with DJs Steve Fabus and Sergio Fedasz. $10. 2pm-7pm. 298 11th St. www.sfoasis.com

PoleSexual @ The Stud
The queer variety show, with live pole dancers drag, and fun. $5-$10. 10pm-2am. 388 9th St. www.studsf.com

Queer Tango @ Finnish Hall, Berkeley
Same-sex partner tango dancing, including lessons for newbies, food and drinks. $5-$10. 3:30pm-6:30pm. 1970 Chestnut St, Berkeley. www.finnishhall.org

Rise Up! @ Ivy Room, Berkeley
Momma's Boyz, Alex U Inn, Danielle LoPresti, Alicia Champion perform and DJ Page Hodel spins grooves at a benefit for UndocuFund, the fire relief organization of undocumented Sonoma workers and families. $10 and up. 3pm-6pm. 860 San Pablo Ave., Berkeley. http://undocufund.org/

Sunday's a Drag @ Starlight Room
Donna Sachet often hosts the weekly fabulous brunch and drag show. $45. 11am, show at noon; 1:30pm, show at 2:30pm. 450 Powell St. in Union Square. 395-8595. www.starlightroomsf.com

Sunday Brunch @ Thee Parkside
Bottomless Mimosas until 3pm at the fun rock-punk club. 1600 17th St. 252-1330. www.theeparkside.com

Vanessa Bousay @ Martuni's
The elegant drag chanteuse performs Come On a My House!, a cabaret concert of food-themed classics; proceeds class=details>benefit Tenderloin Tessie Holiday Dinners. $10-$25. 7pm. 4 Valencia St. http://vanessabousay.com/

Wine Country Rising @ Private Home
Philanthropist John Newmeyer opens his elegant home for Out in the Vineyard and Rainbow World Fund's benefit, with wine, food, silent auctions, and entertainment at a special benefit for Sonoma/Napa fire victims. $100-$1000. 4pm-7pm. 2004 Gough St. https://rainbowfund.givezooks.com/events/wine-country-rising

Monday, Nov. 13

Epic Karaoke @ White Horse, Oakland
Mondays and Tuesdays popular weekly sing-along night. No cover. 8:30pm-1am. 6551 Telegraph Ave, (510) 652-3820. www.whitehorsebar.com

The Gay Husbands of San Francisco @ Oasis
Premiere screening and party for Adam Sandel's new locally-produced web series comedy about gay Castro life, with Michael Phillis, Andrew Slade, Brian J. Patterson, Ed Berkeley, with event hosts class=textexposedshow>Heklina, Donna Sachet and Skye Paterson. $10-$25 (VIP). 7pm-11pm. 298 11th St. https://www.revry.tv/ www.sfoasis.com

Gaymer Meetup @ Brewcade
The weekly LGBT video game enthusiast night includes big-screen games and signature beers, with a new remodeled layout, including an outdoor patio. No cover. 7pm-11pm. 2200 Market St. www.brewcadesf.com

Gin & Comics @ The Stud
New monthly queer comedy show. 8pm-11pm. 10pm-2am. 388 9th st. www.studsf.com

Happy Hour @ The Cinch
Happy hour at the historic neighborhood bar. 5pm-8pm. 1723 Polk St. www.cinchsf.com

Karaoke Night @ SF Eagle
Sing along, with host Beth Bicoastal, prizes, local celeb judges, and $2 draft beer. 8pm-12am. 398 12th St. www.sf-eagle.com

Mister Sister @ Midnight Sun
Drag night with Honey Mahogany, Dulce de Leche and Carnie Asada. No cover. 10pm. 4067 18th St. 861-4186. www.midnightsunsf.com

Mule Mondays @ Port Bar, Oakland
Enjoy frosty Moscow Mule cocktails in a brassy mug, specials before 8pm. 2023 Broadway, Oakland. www.portbaroakland.com

Musical Mondays @ The Edge
Sing along at the popular musical theatre night; also Wednesdays. 7pm-2am. 2 for 1 cocktail, 5pm-closing. 4149 18th St. at Collingwood. www.edgesf.com

No No Bingo @ Virgil's Sea Room
Mica Sigourney and Tom Temprano cohost the wacky weekly game night at the cool Mission bar. 8pm. 3152 Mission St. www.virgilssf.com

Opulence @ Beaux
Weekly dance night, with Jocques, DJs Tori, Twistmix and Andre. 9pm-2am. 2344 Market St. www.beauxsf.com

Piano Bar 101 @ Martuni's
Sing-along night with talented locals, and charming accompanist Joe Wicht. 9pm. 4 Valencia St. at Market.

Pillows @ Powerhouse
Glamamore's drag and crafts party. 9pm-2am, $5. 9pm-2am. 1347 Folsom St. www.powerhousebar.com

Spanglish @ Club OMG
Spanish and English drag shows and dance music with DJ Carlitos. $5-$10. 9pm-2am. 43 6th St. www.clubomgsf.com

Underwear Night @ 440
Strip down to your skivvies at the popular men's night. 9pm-2am. 440 Castro St. 621-8732. www.the440.com

Tuesday, Nov. 14

Cock Shot @ Beaux
Shot specials and adult Bingo games, with DJs Chad Bays and Riley Patrick, at the new weekly night. No cover. 9pm-2am. 2344 Market St. www.beauxsf.com

Dragula @ Oasis
New weekly screenings of LA's Boulet Brothers dragtastic TV show of ghoulish glamour. No cover. 7pm. 298 11th St. www.sfoasis.com

Game Night, AHS @ SF Eagle
Board games, card games and cheap beer. 4pm-2am, plus weekly viewings of American Horror Story: Cult (8pm-11pm) hosted by Thee Pristine Condition. 398 12th St. at Harrison. www.sf-eagle.com

GGBA @ Oasis
Golden Gate Business Association's networking event for LGBT busienss people, with food, drinks and local business info. 6pm-8pm. 298 11th St. www.sfoasis.com

Hella Saucy @ Q Bar
Queer dance party at the stylish intimate bar. 9pm-2am. 456 Castro St. www.QbarSF.com

High Fantasy @ Aunt Charlie's Lounge
Weekly drag and variety show, with live acts and lip-synching divas, plus DJed grooves. $5. Shows at 10:30pm & 12am. 133 Turk St. at Taylor. www.auntcharlieslounge.com

Hysteria Comedy @ Martuni's
Open mic for women and queer comics, with host Irene Tu. 6pm-8pm. 4 Valencia St.

Karaoke Night @ The Stud
Sing Till It Hurts with hostess Sister Flora; 2 for 1 happy hour, no cover. 8pm-2am. 399 9th St. www.studsf.com

Karaoke Cocktails @ Ginger's
The new basement tribute to the old Ginger's Trois hosts a weekly singing fun. 8pm-12am. 86 Hardie Place. https://www.gingers.bar/

LCD Soundsystem @ Bill Graham Civic Auditorium
The electro-pop band performs two concerts along their reunion tour (also Nov. 15) $85 and up. 7:30pm. 99 Grove St. http://www.billgrahamcivicauditorium.com/

Naked Night @ Nob Hill Theatre
Strip down with the strippers at the clothing-optional night. $20. 9pm. 729 Bush St. at Powell. 397-6758. www.thenobhilltheatre.com

Retro Night @ 440 Castro
Jim Hopkins plays classic pop oldies, with vintage music videos. 9pm-2am. 44 Castro St. www.the440.com

Robert Cray @ Yoshi's Oakland
The five-time Grammy-winning soul guitarist performs with his band. $72. 8pm. Also Nov. 15. 510 Embarcadero West, Oakland. https://www.yoshis.com

Sing Out @ Encore Karaoke Lounge
Home of drag shows, and hilaraoke karaoke. 9pm-1am. 1550 California St. #2. 775-0442.

Trivia Night @ Hi Tops
Play the trivia game at the popular new sports bar. 9pm. 2247 Market St. 551-2500. www.HiTopsSF.com

Trivia Night @ Port Bar, Oakland
Cranny hosts a big gay trivia night at the new East Bay bar; drinks specials and prizes. 7:30pm. 2023 Broadway. www.portbaroakland.com

Underwear Night @ Club OMG
Weekly underwear night includes free clothes check, and drink specials. $4. 10pm-2am. Preceded by Open Mic Comedy, 7pm, no cover. 43 6th St. www.clubomgsf.com

Wednesday, Nov. 15

Bondage-a-Gogo @ The Cat Club
The weekly gay/straight/whatever fetish-themed kinky dance night. $7-$10. 9:30pm-2:30am. 1190 Folsom St. www.bondage-a-go-go.com www.catclubsf.com

Bottoms Up Bingo @ Hi Tops
Play board games and win offbeat prizes at the popular sports bar. 9pm. 2247 Market St. 551-2500. www.HiTopsSF.com

B.P.M. @ Club BnB, Oakland
Olga T and Shugga Shay's weekly queer women and men's R&B hip hop and soul night, at the club's new location. No cover. 8pm-2am. 2120 Broadway, Oakland. www.bench-and-bar.com

Castro Karaoke @ Midnight Sun
Sing out with host Bebe Sweetbriar; 2 for 1 well drinks. 8pm-2am. 4067 18th St. 861-4186. www.midnightsunsf.com

Cocktail Time @ Ginger's Trois
Enjoy drinks at the intimate downstairs tribute to the original dive bar; Tue & Wed 5pm-12am. Thu-Sat 5pm-2am. 86 Hardie Place.

Comedy Showcase @ SF Eagle
Kollin Holtz hosts the open mic comedy night. 5:30pm-8pm. 398 12th St. at Harrison. www.sf-eagle.com

Girl Scout @ Port Bar, Oakland
The weekly women's happy hour and dance night with DJ Becky Knox. 6pm-10pm. 2023 Broadway. www.portbaroakland.com

Juicy @ Club OMG
Weekly women's event at the intimate Mid-market nightclub, with DJ Micah Tron. 9pm-2am. 43 6th St. www.clubomgsf.com

Miss Kitty's Trivia Night @ Wild Side West
The weekly fun night at the Bernal Heights bar includes prizes, hosted by Kitty Tapata. No cover. 7pm-10pm. 424 Cortland St. 647-3099. www.wildsidewest.com

Movie Night @ SF Eagle
Enjoy drinks and a flick, with trivia games and prizes. 8pm-2am. 398 12th St. www.sf-eagle.com

Out in Tech @ Oasis
Social and networking event for LGBT people in technology. No cover, but RSVP required. 6pm-10pm. 298 11th St. https://outintech.com/ www.sfoasis.com

Pan Dulce @ Beaux
The hot weekly Latin dance night with sexy gogo guys, drag divas and more, with Club Papi's Frisco Robbie and Fabian Torres. $7. 9pm-2am. 2344 Market St. www.beauxsf.com

Po Hoe @ Powerhouse
Nikki Jizz offers cheap drinks and cheaper men. 10pm-2am. 1347 Folsom St. www.powerhousebar.com

Wrangler Wednesdays @ Rainbow Cattle Company, Guerneville
Wear your jeans and meet new folks at the Russian River gay bar. 16220 Main St., Guerneville. www.queersteer.com

Thursday, Nov. 16

Caissie Levy @ Feinstein's at the Nikko
The talented broadway singer-actor (Frozen, Les Miserables, Hair) premieres her new cabaret concert. $38-$75 ($20 food/drink min.). 8pm. Thru Nov 18. Hotel Nikko, 222 Mason St. http://www.caissielevy.com/ https://www.feinsteinsatthenikko.com/

Circle Jerk @ Nob Hill Theatre
Porn super-hung stud Rafael Alencar leads the very interactive downstairs sex party, before his headlining shows on Nov. 17 & 18 ($25, 8pm & 10pm). $10. 9pm. 729 Bush St. at Powell. 397-6758. www.thenobhilltheatre.com

Comedy Returns @ El Rio
Karen Ripley, Joe Nguyen, Bob McIntyre, Angie Krass, and Lisa Geduldig share their laughable stand-up talents. $7-$20. 8pm. 3158 Mission St. www.ElRioNov16.brownpapertickets.com www.ElRioSF.com

Dancing @ Badlands
The Castro bar's intimate dance floor and gogo guys, with drink specials. 9pm-2am. 4121 18th St. http://www.sfbadlands.com/

The Dong Show @ Oasis
Fudgie Frottage and Tweeka Turner's monthly talent show, with judges Leigh Crow, Mutha Chucka and Kylie Minono, and performances by Raya Light, Calvin Decline, Dusty Mayhem, and Meatflap. $10. 10pm. 298 11th St. www.sfoasis.com

Junk @ Powerhouse
MrPam and Dulce de Leche cohost the weekly underwear strip night and contest, with sexy prizes. $5. 10pm-2am. 1347 Folsom St. www.powerhousebar.com

Kick It @ DNA Lounge
Kandi Love, Northcore Collective and Plus Alliance's weekly EDM, flow arts dance night, with DJs; glow drag encouraged. $5-$10. 9pm-2am. 375 11th St. www.dnalounge.com

Let It Snow @ St. Anne's Home
Holiday Boutique benefit for the senior care home, with food a hosted bar, gifts and music $100-$125. 6pm-9pm. Nov 18, lunch with gifts for sale $55. 10am-3pm. 300 Lake St. http://www.littlesistersofthepoorsanfrancisco.org/

Michael McDonald @ Fox Theatre, Oakland
The veteran singer-songwriter (The Doobie Brothers) performs with his band. Marc Cohn opens. $50-$90. 8pm. 1807 Telegraph Ave. http://thefoxoakland.com/

The Monster Show @ The Edge
The weekly drag show with host Sue Casa, DJ MC2, themed nights and hilarious fun. $5. 9pm-2am. 4149 18th St. at Collingwood. www.edgesf.com

My So-Called Night @ Beaux
Carnie Asada hosts a weekly '90s-themed video, dancin', drinkin' night, with VJs Jorge Terez. Get down with your funky bunch, and enjoy 90-cent drinks. '90s-themed attire and costume contest. No cover. 9pm-2am. 2344 Market St. www.beauxsf.com

Nap's Karaoke @ Virgil's Sea Room
Sing out loud at the weekly least judgmental karaoke in town, hosted by the former owner of the bar. No cover. 9pm. 3152 Mission St. 829-2233. www.virgilssf.com

Nice Jewish Boys @ Evil Eye
Keshet's happy hour gathering for Jewish gay men and their pals. 7pm. 2937 Mission St. https://www.keshetonline.org http://www.evileyesf.com/

Porno Pub Quiz @ The Stud
Adult content only at the sexy sex-info-filled quiz show. 7pm-10pm. 388 9th st. www.studsf.com

Queer Karaoke @ Club OMG
KJ Dana hosts the weekly singing night; unleash your inner American Idol; first Thursdays are Costume Karaoke; 3rd is Kinky Karaoke 8pm. 43 6th St. www.clubomgsf.com

Queer Latinx Social Club @ SF Eagle
Latino/a/x LGBT folks' monthly gathering. 5pm-8pm. 398 12th St. at Harrison. www.sf-eagle.com

Rice Rockettes @ Lookout
Local and visiting Asian drag queens' weekly show with DJ Philip Grasso. $5. 10:30pm show. 3600 16th St. www.lookoutsf.com

Stung, Temptation @ Slim's
The Police and New Order tribute bands, plus Bang On, perform at a benefit for NorCal Fire relief efforts. $16 and up. All ages. 8pm. 333 11th St. http://www.slimspresents.com

Thirsty Thursdays @ Moby Dick
Happy hour at the Castro bar. 5pm-8pm. 4049 18th St. http://www.mobydicksf.com/

Throwback Thursdays @ Qbar
Enjoy retro 80s soul, dance and pop classics with DJ Jorge Terez. No cover. 9pm-2am. 456 Castro St. www.QbarSF.com

Thump @ White Horse, Oakland
Weekly electro music night with DJ Matthew Baker and guests. 9pm-2am. 6551 Telegraph Ave, (510) 652-3820. www.whitehorsebar.com

Tubesteak Connection @ Aunt Charlie's Lounge
Disco guru DJ Bus Station John spins grooves at the intimate retro music night. 10pm-2am. 133 Turk St. at Taylor. www.auntcharlieslounge.com

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